"Try working!!!! Try to earn something it means a lot more when you do.... Get a better job... go to college." that comment on your part was just down right wrong! You know I work I have for a very long time and my family spent years helping people as much as we could but now we are the ones in need of help, I still work a full time job 365 days a year but all the things that could have happened, happened all at once. Yes paying bills with the money you earned yourself is more fulfilling but for you to assume that the people that are asking for help don't try is hurtful. What was the point of posting on this sight if your not (in your own words) "sitting on your butt asking for a handout" was it your fun way of a virtual spit in the face of the people who swallowed there pride to reach out for help?